Reading my last weight loss book! I am never buying another again. I've read 7 chapters so far and I love it! And I love that there are so many women like me that has trouble loosing weight.
I don't need to count calories or deprive myself of the yummy foods. Its very encouraging!
So we have decided to turn off the cable. We have been debating this for over a year. It's a large bill every month and there is isn't many channels that we do watch. We get distracted by silly shows instead of getting more work done.
This week we have put up the tv antenna and got a few channels. And now we know why we had cable. LOL! Regular tv is even worse! Now tv never gets turned on and we have been very productive. I never really knew how bad the tv was a distraction to us until this week :)
I'm glad we have made this decision. But definitely something to get use to!!
Are you willing to change you for the good of your marriage/relationship? Are you that commited? Are you all in? Or hanging on for dear life?
Eric and I dated for 6 years. Would I wait that long again? Not really ;) and yes, Eric agrees he shouldn't have waited that long. But boy did we learn a lot from each other in those years. Coming from really different backgrounds.
Going into marriage I was fully aware what Eric was looking for in a wife. And of course I fully agreed to fulfil those needs. And I totally agree with this chapter that says your husband wants to be your hero. When he knows that, all of a sudden he has "super human strength". Don't you agree?
If your constantly nagging him, complaining, or your voice is overwhelmingly loud. Do you honestly think he is going to want to be YOUR hero? Your being a pain. And now you think you deserve fulfillment from him. HA! Not even close!
It am constantly aware of what comes out of my mouth. Not that I don't disagree with him at times. But I promise you, you will NEVER see me put down my husband in front if others. Even in front of girlfriends. I see it as disrespectful. Yes, we will laugh at the odd things they do. But I feel like I need to talk about my husband like he is in the room. No one likes to be put down or made fun of. Do you? Respect is a two way street!
Also, I want to add that I have taught myself when to be quiet and just listen. Especially when its tough not to! No, I am far from perfect on this. But I really what my tongue. Eric asks my opinion constantly. But I know when its time to zip it. Otherwise I could be starting to get disrespectful.
The author did add add a tiny bit to the "bedroom" scenerio. And I just wanted to add.....what makes him happy. Makes me happy. Your attitude is a huge help to your "hero's" attitude. You might have had a long day, yet so has he! Don't be selfish! This will make your marriage a smoother one!
This is a great chapter! And I have a lot to say about it but!! I will his add, honoring him will only make your marriage stronger!!
I think as a woman and a mother I have a caring heart. But this chapter makes you look at yourself to see if your willing to act on that caring heart.
Are we one of those that enjoy the listening, reading, and worshipping! Yet don't act, and neglect all those that are need of our care around us. REMEMBER: Jesus didn't just preach it, He lived it! Shouldn't that be out daily motto?
"He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God." Micah 6:8
1. Justice- seeking solutions that are fair, reasonable, objective and expressive of the love of Christ. Does this describe you??
2. Mercy-have a hearty interest in doing things that bless and impact others' lives. This is what God's mercy looks toward you and me. Why isn't it how we look towards others'?
3. Humility-put justice and mercy together and you get humility. When your walking humility and trusting Him. Dont you think He will show you your next "mission", so you can receive it and respond to it with humility?
Are you worried about change? That you would have to change your life and make yourself uncomfortable? I am! Yet I want to walk the walk of humility. Like He has done for me! I'm going to act now! How about you?
<p>Blessed are those whose way is blameless. Psalm 119:1</p>
<p>Integrity means being the same underneath as we are on the outside. Unimpaired, whole and sound.
This was a challenging chapter only because I pride myself on being the same person since my younger days. I've always had many strengths; being thoughtful, a listener, happy, positive ect...but even in those strengths little items pop up. Sooner or later pressures of life have fallen into tiny pieces and have changed or challenged me. I've even fallen into a deep depression. But through Him, and Him alone, I regained my integrity. And now, know the signs and symptoms, if it all comes back like a "hidden disease".
I resolve to be a woman of integrity! The best gift for myself and everyone around me. No hidden secrets. God is my leader and my guide to stay in track!! I want to encourage woman to embrace the same!!
I was rushing around this morning, like most Sunday mornings. But this morning was extra busy. Trying to get lunch ready for after church and breakfast warmed up to bring to church. Getting the kids and Eric to look beautiful and handsome. Baby fed and dressed. Me, half way put together ;0) Of course we were running later than I liked.
As Eric dropped me off at the front door of the church, as to make my breakfast delivery easier, I was greeted at the door by a church friend saying "He has Risen". Quickly reminding me of the real importance of the day. Suddenly feeling less frazzled and more tuned in to the day. I thanked her and enjoyed a wonderful breakfast with my church family. I really enjoy my family at church. Loving, kind and generous!
Liam was dedicated today. Such a blessing and experience that was! He was such a little gentleman. Not scared being in front of the whole congregation nor being in our pastors arms. So glad my 4 oldest and some of my family could be there.
Our day continued with a wonderful church service and lunch with my family. The sun just a glowing, crisp breeze blowing and a quick nap.
Not everyone believes what happen today, nor why it has such importance. But someday I hope your eyes are open, to the gift. The gift of of His love. The love that saved you and me from certain death. So we can stand at the right hand of God. Enjoying our life with Him! Thank you Jesus! For the price you paid for me!
He Has Risen! He Has Risen Indeed!
Amen!
<3 Liam is an amazing little boy!
7 months has been a huge transition month!
Standing by hisself
Then crawling
Then walking along the couch
All within 2 weeks. Yikes!!
